Tuesday, November 29, 2011

The Real Definition


Lest We Forget


Between the woman in California pepper spraying the crowd in the store so she could get a gaming system to grandfather getting trampled trying to protect his grandson in the name of getting a Christmas gift, a big portion of the world has just gone batshit crazy.  When did society run off the tracks and lose sight?  Sure, I remember growing up and my Mom going out to the holiday sales, but I cannot for the life of me remember someone getting pepper sprayed or trampled in a crowd.  The mere fact that Police get called in on the events just leaves me at a loss.  Not only has the real story of Christmas been lost but also the real meaning of a gift. 

In its purest form, a gift is giving something to someone or some entity without the expectation of receiving something in return.  I am thankful for the gifts people give me daily, and they are indeed a gift.  People still look at me funny when I say thank you for your time or thank you for the hug.  I see those as gifts.  True story, Lauren asked me the other day what I wanted for Christmas, and I told her a smile and a hug.  To me, those are the real gifts to give.  I’ve been blessed to be in a position that if I desire something tangible, I can get buy it. 

The reality is that nothing tangible means more to me than the gift of time.  Give me a hug and laugh with my Dad, some horse play with Coltan, a hug and slobbery kiss from Tristen, a call from Johnny saying I was thinking about your, or a note from someone that just says good morning, and I’m all good.  Those are the real gifts in life.

Lest we forget, a gift is giving something to someone or some entity without the expectation of receiving something in return. 

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