Kaboom
I’ve been holding this in for so
long and just can’t anymore. You just
make me: fill in the blank. I’m certain 100% of us have been in the very
situation and either were the sender or receiver of that message. I know the times I’ve done it; I was holding
things in and convincing myself, I was avoiding some conflict or argument of
some sort. In actuality, sitting on “it”
was just making things worse. A racing
mind can conjure up all sorts of crap.
In my experience, that is typically, what it is, CRAP! How many times have you blown up and shot
your mouth off to find the reasons in your head were totally without merit and
100% wrong, and BOOM goes the dynamite.
If you are sitting on thing and
allowing them to fester, the first thing to do is ask why and is it based on
fact, emotion, or crap from that past that you are pulling into the present? Before go Kaboom, do a little root-cause
analysis can save you and whoever a lot of angst, stress, and cruel words.
One of my favorite quotes that may fit here.
ReplyDelete"Never hold a grudge. While your holding a grudge, the other guy's out dancing." - Buddy Hackett.
I may have to lift that one from ya :)
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