What Did You Expect?

I am one of the biggest supporters of expressing feelings, and I am a staunch believer that people have to earn the right to know me at deeper levels. I share a lot of what goes on in my life through social media, but I do have boundaries. You will not see me posting about relationships, my status, if I am seeing someone, etc.  Others will put every single detail about their lives out there. Relationship status – “it’s complicated,” comments about this one or that one being worthless or a cheater, or he/she does not pay enough attention to me, are just a few.  That is certainly a choice, but if you choose to puke up your inner secrets, do not be surprised or act like a victim if someone calls you out or comments about your situation.  Vent your feelings through writing or a close confidant but do not put all your mess out there for the entire world to see. 

It is very simple folks.  When you put that kind of crap out in the universe that is exactly what you will get back. Your status will stay complicated, people will talk about you, and you will continue to live in the quagmire of suck.  It is your choice to be a professional victim or a positive influence. That is just how it works.