Crapsicle

Yep! I said it. No matter how hard we try, not all days are “happy, happy, happy.”  Some days and events in life are one giant crapsicle.  No matter what we do, we feel the “kickin” continuing to happen. The default response is, “make it stop…this hurts.”  The reality is that the default response seldom works.  We have to get up off the ground, brush ourselves off and say, “Is that all you got?” Some of the best lessons I have learned were when I was at my lowest points and did not see a way out of my chaos.  Well, until I stopped thinking I could fix everything, realized I did not have all the answers, and learned to listen to my head/heart and the good Lord.

There are times we need help.  Help is not a bad four-letter word.  It does not mean we are weak or anything else.  Rather, it means we realize we cannot do everything on our own and need help from those that love us and care about us. There is no one person on this earth that has all the answers or can solve all problems.  Allow yourself to ask for help.  You will be glad you did.