Tuesday, April 24, 2012

The Right Answer


The right answer is the answer that works best for you.  Oh, I guess I should ask the question first.  What gives you the feeling of being loved?  The so-called experts say the answers are all over the map.  Receiving gifts seems to be popular, being emotive is another one; hugs, and kisses are right up there along with random acts for no apparent reason.  I prefer the random acts when someone least expects it.  I am a little selfish when it comes to that one though, as I get a huge rush from seeing the reaction when things are unexpected.  From a guy’s perspective, these are some things that come to mind, and yes, I’ve done them.

Flowers, not necessarily roses, on a Tuesday or any other day of the week that is not a special occasion, filling her car up with gas or getting the oil changed so she does not have to worry about it the next day.  Running errands for them when I know it will stress them out to try to get the errands done in their already busy day.  There is always time for an email, a call, or a text just letting them know you are thinking about them. 
For those wondering what my favorite thing is, it’s someone’s time.  That’s the right answer for me.  What’s yours?

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