Our food comes out wrong and
we yell at the waiter. The cleaner can’t
find our clothes and we yell at the counter person attempting to help us. Yep! We’ve all done it. We have taken out our frustration on the
person that cannot really do anything about the situation. Now, picture someone yelling at your daughter
or son that happens to be the waiter or person helping you at the
cleaners. It takes on a little different
complexion when it hits close to home doesn’t it.
No one needs to be yelled at.
Yes, things happen that frustrate us, but being rude or demeaning to the other
party does not make the situation any better.
Actually, it makes things worse, as we have now sucked someone else into
our pissy mood. When you feel the need
to yell or get pissy, hold your tongue, literally if you need to, for a count
of five. Let the frustration pass and
then ask the other person how we can resolve the issue. Seldom to never does yelling ever solicit a
positive outcome. Asking for help rather
than demanding help gets so much more done.
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